Health and Beauty

Red Hair -ing

By now, the exciting news has leaked out – that I have red hair. Well, I have always had red hair, but now it is REALLY RED HAIR.

For most women, the choice of hair color is not a piddling concern, but likely not life-changing. For me, it is very likely to be.

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androgynous model pejic

Beyond Gender

Most people agree that there is male and there is female, and with the exception of a precious few folks on this planet, everyone is either one gender or the other.

Then came Andrej Pejic, called by New York Magazine “The Prettiest Boy in the World. (http://nymag.com/fashion/11/fall/andrej-pejic/ )” His androgyny is well-known, being that he models high fashion for both genders, but what’s more interesting is that he says that his gender is entirely a matter of perception and, that professionally, he has left his gender open to artistic interpretation.

“It’s not like, ‘Okay, today I want to look like a man, or today I want to look like a woman,’ ” he says. “I want to look like me. It just so happens that some of the things I like are feminine.”

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The Illusion of Cleavage

Seems that the male of the species has a pre-occupation with the bosom of the female – and the publicly viewable part of it, i.e., cleavage. For my part – if I still get a vote – I have never been all that interested in that part of the female anatomy – nice enough, but I generally have found that it is thin women who generally don’t have much there, y’know model types, who tend to catch my eye. Funnily enough, GF is quite buxom. Oh well, I’ll make do. 😉

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Gender Identity – Tempting Fate

I followed up my performance at that last party by wearing the same teal green booties with white pants and a women’s casual top (and even a bit of mascara) to a dinner party with some of the same friends.

Again nothing.

At one point in the evening, we were discussing some celebrities, and one of the women mentioned that she didn’t like the way Brad Pitt looked with long hair. Too greasy, too droopy, no body – just didn’t look right.

“Maybe they thought that if they gave his hair more body, he’d look too feminine,” I piped in helpfully.

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teal booties with men's pants

On Gender Change – Hair’s the Thing

I think one of the most profound realizations that came to me in the course of considering the whole yaoi thing was the idea that I have been taking for granted the effect that the changes to my hair (both on my head – where the change is to more and longer – and on my body, where the change is to less and none) have achieved already.

I have been thinking so much about the effects that I might have to encounter if people I knew found out that I was a feminine man or even a part-time female, or whichever way we decide to characterize what it is that I am or do.

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Men and Their Heels

I just thought I’d direct your attention to an interesting article from the BBC entitled “Why Did Men Stop Wearing High Heels?”

For the uninitiated, it seems that men used to have long hair, wear flowing, frilly clothes, and yes, high heels. At times, this was done for functional reasons; other times, it was to signify wealth and class.

Equally interesting is that high heels were out of fashion for a time for both genders.

It was not only designers but changing gender and class roles and social mores that influenced who wore the pants… or stilettos… in the family.

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Not Much of a Man

My morning’s email brought with it a bunch of digital photos of me and my family over the holidays, and my reaction to them was not positive.

What I saw were the kind of photos where, years later, a next generation asks, “Who’s that weird-looking guy in this picture?” and the answer is something like, “Oh, he was some crazy uncle… I heard he was a nice enough guy, but obviously quite strange…”

Looking at the photo was troubling not because of the judgment of others, but because of my own verdict, to wit: one strange bird among several normal-looking people.

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Janie’s Christmas Photos for 2012

This is one of my favorite ways of getting in on all the fun that goes on this time of year – dressing up and taking pictures. (Come to think of it, I enjoy being in front of or behind the lens all year long.)  Well, maybe it’s the shopping then. 😛

Anyway, I hope you like them. 🙂

To all my readers, have a safe holiday season/Merry Christmas!

xo

Janie

 

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Model T-Girl – Modeling

Since I started up this new site, I have scarcely had enough time to put into my modeling efforts. I haven’t even managed to introduce my blog readers to the photos I have posted in the modeling section of this site from shoots I have already done.

Well, today’s the day.

This will be the first in an intermittent series on the photos in my modeling portfolio.

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Strange Limits

Funny what limits we set for ourselves…

I live my life as Janie well over half the time; I go out for walks in the neighborhood; I drive, shop, go out to eat.

On a different tack, I have done laser to make my body and face hairless, and I have grown my hair out.

But, strange as it may seem, one thing I can’t bring myself to do is pierce my ears.

Allow me to explain.

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